HAVING A LAST FLING?!? YOU DECIDE!
by Zachary Harris

I don’t think a last fling is such a big deal. I mean, you ain’t married until you say “I do.” So legally, you’re still a free man. As long as you make sure the world doesn’t know, and you can keep it to yourself, I say, go for it. I think guys mess up when they tell a bunch of people.
–26, Chicago IL

Ya play, ya pay. If you think this is a good idea and you’re about to get married—this is probably a sign that you should not be getting married. It’s an immature thing to do when you’re about to make one of the most mature decisions of your life.
–37, Los Angeles, CA

For the record, I had a last fling a couple days before my wedding and it was some really good sex. This was almost two years ago and I don’t think I really felt guilty at the time, but I did think about it before ‘it’ actually went down. Some women have ways of taking your mind off things, including your girlfriend.
–32, Detroit, MI

You may be thinking you’re getting a fling, and really get a flang—too many diseases in these days and times too–the night before your wedding, dance and be merry yes—but save yours for your wife or husband. An adjustment period may be challenging, once you’re first married. This will probably be even more difficult once you’ve had the fling. Suppose the fling decides they want more? Suppose this causes an end to your marriage before it gets started?
–61, White Plains, NY

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