| Cheers!
Here's To The Perfect Toast
by Lovis Rhodes
OK Best Man. This is your moment to shine—toasting
the bride and groom. Protocol states that you are actually
the “master of toasts” for the reception.
Subsequent toasts will follow your lead so it’s
up to you to get the ball rolling.
If you or any of the other “toasters”
are a little apprehensive about making a perfect toast,
here are a few tips to help give you a boost of confidence.
Practice makes perfect. Be prepared and know exactly
what you are going to say. Practice in front of a
mirror.
Keep it short, sweet and to the point. Allow about
3-5 minutes. You’ll have less room for error.
Enunciate and speak loud enough so guests can hear.
Have your toast written by a professional if you
are unsure of your ability. Just remember, you’ll
still need
to deliver it, so make sure you’re comfortable
with the words and sentiments.
When giving a toast—stand.
When receiving a toast—sit.
Mention those you are toasting by name, their relationship
to you along with an appropriate anecdote or two.
If you’re clueless as to who toasts whom and
when, here are some guidelines:
 Rehearsal
Dinner
The bride toasts the groom.
The groom toasts the bride’s mother.
The bride’s father may toast the groom’s
parents.
Reception
The best man toasts the bride and groom.
The groom toasts the bride and her family.
The two fathers toast the bride and groom.
The bride and groom toast each other.
Don’t forget to end the toast with a hearty
“Cheers!”
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